You have seen this title in a lot of magazines, following with 5 ways to improve this or 3 tips to change that. Low sexual desires are always pictured as something wrong or broken that needs to be fixed. Instead of looking at the causes, we are trying very hard to change it or repair …
Most monogamous couples assume that their partner knows what the limits of the relationship are. But monogamy is not one size fits all. After exploring polyamory and open relationships I realized that monogamy was a better relationship status for me. The main difference that I observe between those different statuses is that monogamous couples don’t …
I went for a walk with my bestie the other day. After catching up on life, we share how it was going on with our respective partners. After listening to her it was my turn. I shared how well it was going and then stated: “It’s so nice to be with someone who wants to …
The secret for Great Sex is not what you think it is and certainly not what you want to hear. I texted my partner for a booty call as I was ovulating. We planned to see each other at 8pm after my Pilates class. Things you need to know about me: I am not an …
I started my orgasmic life when I was around 8 years old (maybe before but I can’t remember) Grinding on a chair was my move. I tried touching myself with my fingers but didn’t really know where to touch and what to do and didn’t feel much. So I kept on grinding. Then I fell …
Most women have orgasm with stimulation of the clitoris. The penetration alone isn’t enough. Therefore most women have trouble orgasming during penetration. Especially if the penetration looks like “fast and furious”. It might work for most men but it might not work at all for women. So which positions work best for orgasm? And we …
When I was a teenager I would spend hours kissing my boyfriends. Not wanting more, just kissing. My tongue interlaced with his. The wet sensation, the sucking of the lips, everything would make me melt and make my heart race. I loved kissing so much! I remember I had a non boyfriend that I would …
I keep on seeing posts stating: “An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away” “An orgasm a day keeps the wrinkles away” “Eat, sleep masturbate, repeat” “Masturbate everyday” I have no issues attaining and reaching orgasms. But I can’t stop thinking about those who do. Or those who experience involuntary ejaculation. Or those who experience …
Learning new skills is fun. Learning new skills is powerful. Learning new skills can boost your ego. Learning new skills can make you someone’s hero. Learning new sexual skills is super fun. You get to learn more about how your body works or how your partner’s body works. The problem is when we only focus …
When was the last time you sat across from your partner to talk about the elephant in the room? A big elephant in a room (or even a small one) takes space. I’ve been in many relationships where we didn’t want to speak about the elephant in the room , let alone acknowledge it was …
